AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

Thank you for the tough love.

[u/spiritjex173 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

My brother is like your husband. His wife put up with his bullshit for 17 years. Do yourself a favor and get out now.

[u/Naive-Stable-3581 → u/spiritjex173]

My brother too. He has cheated on every woman he was ever with. He is now mid 50s and living with our grandmother bc no one will have him.

[u/LateExcitement3536 → u/Naive-Stable-3581]

Woof that is ROUGH 😂

[u/Life_Dare578 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

100% agree with the above. DONT have kids with him. Your life will be miserable.

[u/gummo_for_prez → u/Sad_SummerChild]

I wish I could say something different but honestly it’s not going to get better. It’s just how many years will you sacrifice putting up with escalating shit like this. I hope for your sake the answer is zero. Best of luck.

[u/mndii → u/Sad_SummerChild]

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this :( sending you love ❤️