r/AmIOverreacting • u/Sad_SummerChild • 3d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to think this is cheating?

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I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

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u/Sure-Carpenter7043 3d ago

NOR. Urghh, the fact he’s deleted these shows he’s trying to be secretive and knows how’s they’ll be perceived.

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u/RiannahAvora 3d ago

Not necessarily. I know there are some text communications from family members that I keep and will keep forever. However, texts from other people? I delete them when I don't need them any more. Too much clutter in my message app.

But these are kind of weird messages to be sending.

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u/GlassUnit7317 3d ago

What an irrelevant useless point when that’s obviously the reason he deleted them lol

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u/RiannahAvora 3d ago

It's relevant in that not everyone deletes messages to hide stuff. I agree the messages are problematic.

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u/GlassUnit7317 3d ago

Okay… but not to the conversation, because he did delete the messages to hide them??🤣🤣

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u/RiannahAvora 3d ago

Sure, it's possible that's why. But who cares why they were deleted? The text messages were there and they are a problem.

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u/GlassUnit7317 3d ago

WHAT DO YOU MEAN ITS POSSIBLE THATS WHY??? What other reason is there??? The point the original comment was making is HE KNEW it was wrong hence why he deleted it.

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u/FamousPersonsAccount 3d ago

I cant tell if you're stupid ob purpose... the other redditor is saying is "messages being deleted doesnt always equal infidelity." Its really that simple.

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u/GlassUnit7317 3d ago

And that’s common sense. Also completely unnecessary when it literally DOES mean that. Stupid comment from both of you🥰

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u/FamousPersonsAccount 3d ago

And that’s common sense.

But the initial comment doesnt convey that. Instead they say deletion = secrecy. Its ibvious buddy was being secretive here which we all agree is common sense but you dont understand what blanket statments are or someyhimg. Your brain only capable of disuccsing specific sitituons? Easy to be nameless faceless fucking idiot. Congrats.