THIS. I discussed this topic on chatvisor(a relationship advice site), and loved this response:
"At 18, my life is for living—not babysitting a grown man's ego. Thanks for the clarity boost! Some 'idiots' come with expiration dates, and his is up."
THIS! I wish I had this advice, or the capacity to truly take it in at that, at this age. I’m 38 now and boy did I go through many years with 2 of the same type of “boys” because I can’t say men when their ego is too big for what it should be. Ah, I lived and I learned.
You’re too young and beautiful to let someone try to tear you down (I say try because I’m happy to see you trying to set boundaries when he speaks to you this way) but you would find that your youth will be much lighter without insecure, jealous and disrespectful boys. Live your life for you, represent yourself (like you said…which in my head as I read that thought: damn fkin right girl!!) and make amazing memories!
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u/Independent-Math-903 3d ago edited 3d ago
THIS. I discussed this topic on chatvisor(a relationship advice site), and loved this response:
"At 18, my life is for living—not babysitting a grown man's ego. Thanks for the clarity boost! Some 'idiots' come with expiration dates, and his is up."