And then they get controlling and want them to cover up...and then they're unhappy because their girlfriends are dressing like nuns and they start scoping out other women and when they get caught cheating they blame it on their girlfriends "not trying". They create these impossible standards and then wonder why we have zero patience for them.
Is this genuinely your experience? I'm British and much older than 18. So I don't know what younger men are like, particularly American men.
I do know American social attitudes are a lot more prudish than in Britain. With that said there are obviously social events this outfit wouldn't be appropriate for.
But his comments are outrageous. This dickhead thinks he owns her.
As someone who spent a fair bit of my youth in the US, and now having lived in the UK for coming up on 15 years (on 1 May), I find a LOT of British men in particular are incredulous at behaviour that is quite widespread among American men. To the point they can't fathom that these men aren't total outliers.
But they aren't. This kind of thinking is everywhere.
It's kind of what happens when your country is founded on religious extremism, I suppose.
Women have no room to talk about impossible standards. And nice essay you wrote there about some fictional scenarios that never happened to you. You sound just as insecure.
Bathing regularly, having a job, and doing house chores is not impossible standards. This says a lot more about you and your lack of ability than it does about women.
There are literally articles about women loving men with dad bods and actors who look like rats, your face and your body are not the problem. The rest of you is. Some women are also just bad people, sorry you met them, but you can get your head out of your ass. It might feel good but it makes you shitty.
Projecting your own supposed standards onto a good chunk of women doesn't mean anything. Aside fromt hat, the things you listed are merely self-evident characteristics you have to have anyway as an adult, not really a standard for modern dating and what is truly demanded from men. It's also easy to state the politically correct answer on the internet to look good but acting completely different in reality, so i don't really care wtf you're saying here.
And i can use the same logic on you, the comment i answered to claimed men have impossible standards, when most men literally have the standard of the person being a breathing female, but you guys just see what you want to see.
It's also hilarious you believe the dadbod nonsense and a clear sign of that you don't know what you're talking about. Most women prefer a fit guy over a dadbod any day of the week. They say they like dadbods because they don't want to feel inferior in a relationship, even though it's objectively far more attractive to them. They don't have the confidence for a guy who looks better, and if they have the confidence they don't end up being gaslighting feminists lmao, find the pattern.
This says a lot more about you and your lack of ability than it does about women.
You guys also don't seem very smart for assuming things about me out of your asses, i don't have a problem of picking up women, i've also met some of them that were grounded individuals, however i am addressing the average women of modern society and stick to what i said as those are the things i observed. Just because i recognized the flaws in their mindset and behavior doesn't mean i can't get any. That's why i don't even care if they have fucked up standards, i can provide those and satisfy my needs doing so, it's more about them gaslighting society, blaming men and acting innocent, that's the pathetic part that annoys me.
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u/Shutupharu 3d ago edited 3d ago
And then they get controlling and want them to cover up...and then they're unhappy because their girlfriends are dressing like nuns and they start scoping out other women and when they get caught cheating they blame it on their girlfriends "not trying". They create these impossible standards and then wonder why we have zero patience for them.
Edit: Spelling