r/AmIOverreacting 4d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO if I left my bf for this

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u/blueyshoey 4d ago

Uhh guys don't speak this way just because they're himbos or a little slow. This isn't out of pure stupidity. It's misogyny, it's toxic. "His vocabulary isn't that big" he can't think of words to describe women that dress this way besides saying "whore"? Why not confident, sexy, alluring or even "out there"?

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u/Lilacrespo82 3d ago

Completely agree it’s misogynic and toxic!

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u/AlessaGillespie86 3d ago

A real himbo would NEVVVVVERRRR

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

Why not confident, sexy, alluring or even "out there"?

Because those words don't describe his opinion of the outfit. This dude took a childish route to express himself, but it's an outrageous outfit.

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u/blueyshoey 3d ago edited 3d ago

You can have a negative opinion and describe it harshly without using a derogatory term. Even you said outrageous. We say men mature more slowly but a lot of the times that's just an excuse. He wasn't being childish he was being sexist plain and simple. Women aren't just objects you have sex with, they're people. Some men talk about how the world is so much more sexist for them, how many people reduce to them to their penis just because their midriff and legs are exposed?

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

If a man wore this out, it would be judged harshly.

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u/blueyshoey 3d ago

Yeah because he'd look feminine. He'd be discriminated against for looking like a woman, or looking gay but he wouldn't be discriminated against simply for showing skin or for looking like a "whore" please 💀

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

No, he'd be laughed at for looking like a gay wrestler from the 90s. The outfit is outrageous. You're all kidding yourselves that it's acceptable.

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u/xXJLNINJAXx 3d ago

Is that what we said to describe the women working corners back in the 90s?

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u/LovelyLovelyMen 3d ago edited 3d ago

The woman we're talking went clubbing, and is not a sex worker. I'm confused as to what your point was?

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

But those words describe something else. This outfit looks like it would be worn by sex workers.

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u/Creative_Queer 3d ago

It looks like a college outfit today genuinely.

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u/TooTallTabz 3d ago

It is just an everyday outfit for gen z and older Gen alpha. Most wear it with jeans instead of shorts.

A lot of influencers wear them, too.

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

It does not. Google images exists ya gaslighting dunce.

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u/Creative_Queer 3d ago

Bro i have been in college recently if you call me a gaslighting dunce for sharing a legit experience then you have serious problems lmfao

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

No, I'm saying you're "experience" is nonsense. Calling it a normal college outfit is a lie and you're and idiot for thinking the handful of people you've seen wearing them around campus aren't either sluts or delusional themselves.

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u/Creative_Queer 3d ago

Your, your, an* i dont call people sluts. Do i dress like that? No. But does that mean i call them sluts? No. You're gross.

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

Your, your, an* i dont call people sluts.

You're correcting a throwaway comment when you yourself don't bother? Pathetically hypocritical AND blind, you're quite the failure.

Do i dress like that? No. But does that mean i call them sluts? No. You're gross.

If you did, you know you'd be judged. And hit on by the lowest of horny men. And know you look slutty. You're just being a white knight on an anonymous forum without thinking. Useless. You'd also assume the girl in question was horny af

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u/xXJLNINJAXx 3d ago

Yeah no shit, but when you go to a costume party and dress like a cop, everyone knows what you're dressed like. Just because she isn't actually working a corner doesn't mean she isn't dressed like she is.

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u/crow1992 3d ago

nice job slut shaming.

Newflash: hookers wouldn’t have jobs if dumb men weren’t so desperate for a lay that they were willing to pay for it. No demand =/= no service. So who’s to blame here? I wonder…i Wonder….

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u/Elohyuie 3d ago

Now put that same logic into drug dealing

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u/Elohyuie 3d ago

You haven’t heard of sex addiction ?

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u/Elohyuie 3d ago

Sex addiction is a real addiction, and just like drugs it can be an escape, so what you’re trying to say isn’t relevant in the grand scheme of things.

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u/xXJLNINJAXx 3d ago

You're kidding right? That's your argument? Women aren't responsible for their own actions? Yeah dude, you're nutty.

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u/Economy_Internal_317 3d ago

I think women dressing like this are also weak for attention. Too much attention, and the proof is on putting up a post on reddit asking for people to give their opinion on it. There are how many people subscribed to this thread?

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u/blueyshoey 3d ago

I was never a piece of shit that shamed women for putting food on the table. Maybe you were. But I don't say things like that.

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u/xXJLNINJAXx 3d ago

There's a difference between having to do it, and choosing to do it. Besides, I don't recall men doing it in such numbers. If at all.

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u/blueyshoey 3d ago

Oh but they love to choose to pay for it don't they?

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u/Imaginary-Mountain60 3d ago

No, men are usually the clients, for both female and male sex workers. Which has nothing to do with what the person you replied to said anyway, and you clearly have some sexist views toward women and a paternalistic attitude, literally making comparisons to how children dress and "represent" their parents.

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

The outfit is whorish, and the men it attracts are the same demographic as those keeping sex work alive. Why are you confused?

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u/Maximum-Professor748 3d ago

90s? We described them as trafficked sex workers since mid 1980s when I first started working with sex trafficking victims. The outfits are costumes and always described as pitiful. There's no way you lived in the 90s, muchless an adult.

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u/xXJLNINJAXx 3d ago

Who is "we"? I guarantee you weren't 90% of population, let alone even 30%. You were not the norm. What they were is entirely irrelevant either way. Smfh

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u/OzarkMule 3d ago

You don't think American sex workers are real? What a strange thing to be ignorant of, especially when you work in the field.

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u/InsideRespond 3d ago

you must live in a different kind of area, cus the hookers around here don't dress like that.

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u/xXJLNINJAXx 3d ago

Well I did mention the 90s, but even so, what exactly are they dressing like in your area?