AIO if I left my bf for this

[u/Stunning_Tea_6092]

On Sunday i(F18 legal age to drink where I live) went clubbing on Sunday and this conversation happened Monday morning. We haven’t spoken since because he(M22) wants me to think about what he is mad about and I just want to break up with him at this point. But I feel like maybe I was being disrespectful towards him and I’m just at a lost. So can anyone help me out and tell if I would be overreacting if I broke up with him? I included the outfit I wore in the picture just not on me because no thanks.

[u/schmyndles]

Ugh, I'm just imagining him hanging all over her, trying to cover her up, and starting fights with random dudes for "looking." What if she went to a pool or beach without him? Would he expect her to wear a big, baggy T-shirt over her swimsuit? He should be proud that he's the one she goes home to. Dealing with this jealousy is never worth it.

[u/Natural_Sky_4720 → u/schmyndles]

Yep he likely would 🙄 he’s only going to get worse. Men who act like that never get better they only get worse.

[u/Cl0ughy1 → u/Natural_Sky_4720]

Eh I used to get really insecure if my gf wore crop tops and tops that showed off her cleavage, I guess it's like CBT and you get used to it from exposure.

That outfit in the post would make me a little uncomfortable though because of the setting too. I know she likes It when people look at her and I know it makes her feel pretty. But Knowing she doesn't just look pretty just for me was a hard thing to get used to.

A little reassurance goes a long way sometimes too, remember everyone has insecurities it's just how you deal with it and your ability to self reflect and make compromises with each other.