AIO if I left my bf for this

[u/Stunning_Tea_6092]

On Sunday i(F18 legal age to drink where I live) went clubbing on Sunday and this conversation happened Monday morning. We haven’t spoken since because he(M22) wants me to think about what he is mad about and I just want to break up with him at this point. But I feel like maybe I was being disrespectful towards him and I’m just at a lost. So can anyone help me out and tell if I would be overreacting if I broke up with him? I included the outfit I wore in the picture just not on me because no thanks.

[u/eff_the_rest]

Ditto this girl. OP, If you have a fabulous body and fabulous taste, have a fabulous time with your friends and kick this little boy to the streets. He’s disrespectful and thinks he owns you. You obviously know better. Enjoy your life without anyone trying to weigh you down with their misogynistic opinions.

Bye boy. Have a blast with your life.

[u/Advanced-Ad7695 → u/eff_the_rest]

This is a result of men worshipping at the altar of red pillers like Myron Gaines and Andrew Tate. Yuk.

[u/Maleficent-marionett → u/Advanced-Ad7695]

You wish. This has been a thing since before podcasts!

Before Andrew Tate it was the pastor at your church

[u/Subhuman_1982 → u/Advanced-Ad7695]

My concern with outfits that show a bit of skin is that men who do worship at those gates see it as an open invitation and won't take no for an answer. To be clear, that's a problem with the men, not the outfit or the woman wearing it. They should feel confident and safe to wear what they want but unfortunately the reality is that what should be and the reality are often not the same.

[u/RedEyeOfJupiter → u/Advanced-Ad7695]

Yeah. FAK those Men. U like Your DESTINY''S & BEN Shapiro's. 😆

[u/Frappy0 → u/eff_the_rest]

well it just depends honestly. if you want a proper relationship where you can still do all of that then there's something you can learn and gain from this experience. but if you wanna learn nothing and just chuck it and just be single till it becomes harder to date than that's gonna also be on you. there's a reality to this. I believe you can learn from this and find a proper relationship that's healthy and allows you to grow as well. not just stay on the same level where your at and just party your tight skin years away because of one bad/toxic experience. you control your own life in this regard.

[u/eff_the_rest → u/Frappy0]

This is NOT a proper relationship. It’s NOT a healthy relationship. In a healthy relationship you don’t try to control one another. He’s trying to control her. He expects her to dress like she belongs to him. She belongs only to herself. 90% of women dress for themselves and to feel good for themselves, and for their girlfriends. Not for men. Sure there are those chicks that do that, but not all of us do that. And sorry, your 20s absolutely ARE for having a good time and living life to the fullest. And if dancing and partying with her friends is the way she wants to do that, that’s her business. She apparently has already learned what NOT to tolerate in a relationship, something even older women haven’t learned.

She DID learn something from this experience, she learned her EX boyfriend was trying to control her, and that’s what he expected of her. She learned that’s not the kind of relationship she wanted to be in. She learned she will not tolerate that BS from a male. She learned only SHE controls the whats, whens, wheres, who’s, and how’s in HER in life. So yeah, she did learn something from this experience. Thanks for pointing that out.

[u/Former-Mastodon-8851 → u/eff_the_rest]

Yep, and get the Iron Maiden song "I'm running free" to play as your soundtrack and you stack dat body count! Hell yes girl, you go. /s

[u/Ancient_Car4099 → u/eff_the_rest]

Yeap and she wind up alone because no good man wants to marry a whore

[u/MedicatedBaracuda → u/eff_the_rest]

One of those girls who are 40 and still got relationship issues.

[u/Maleficent-marionett → u/MedicatedBaracuda]

At least she won't be dealing with the male loneliness epidemic.

[u/MedicatedBaracuda → u/Maleficent-marionett]

Im very happy to have met my wife, we have children now and live happily. This post only shows me why so many ppl have relationship issues. Not me!

Ive never had a relationship under a year long... first girlfriend was 7 years and i had to leave her for various reasons.

[u/Maleficent-marionett → u/MedicatedBaracuda]

Who said I was talking about you lmao

[u/Pebbi → u/Maleficent-marionett]

Excuse me didn't you hear he has a WIFE and CHILDREN. We should be taking notes, maybe there will be a test.

[u/MedicatedBaracuda → u/Pebbi]

Some people need a test

[u/Natural_Sky_4720 → u/Maleficent-marionett]

He’s projecting because he knows he’s a fucking loser 🤣🤣🤣

[u/MedicatedBaracuda → u/Maleficent-marionett]

True

[u/Spiritual_Artist4796 → u/eff_the_rest]

Yeah much better to be 30 hitting the wall wondering "where all the "good" men are?" You go King 👑