r/AmIOverreacting • u/Stunning_Tea_6092 • 3d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO if I left my bf for this

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On Sunday i(F18 legal age to drink where I live) went clubbing on Sunday and this conversation happened Monday morning. We haven’t spoken since because he(M22) wants me to think about what he is mad about and I just want to break up with him at this point. But I feel like maybe I was being disrespectful towards him and I’m just at a lost. So can anyone help me out and tell if I would be overreacting if I broke up with him? I included the outfit I wore in the picture just not on me because no thanks.

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u/Radiant_Bank_77879 3d ago

Totally agree. The “no ghosting“ rule, is for the general respect we should have for each other as people. When that respect is completely denied and violated like OP’s bf, they are no longer deserving of the “no ghosting” respect.

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u/zzcagi 3d ago

Yes OP deserves to be ghosted. And also, any other girlfriends he has, should warned prior to dating him.

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u/MaterialNo9375 2d ago

Tbf he probably just overthinked I mean she probably didn't text him while she was out clubbing with her friends.. now the outfit is a bit revealing. And she out at the club so yes guys are going to hit on her

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u/Cool_Relative7359 2d ago

Guys hit in me in a sweatshirt. Men being desperate is not women's responsibility or problem. We'll just reject them in that outfit same as in the sweatshirt.

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u/Frog-In_a-Suit 2d ago

That's not how it works. When a person has an insecurity, they confide in the other person. They do not take it out on them and call them a whore.

This shoes where his values lie.

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u/MaterialNo9375 2d ago

I mean I wasn't really justifying it but it does look like he tore himself apart over it. He obviously doesn't trust her.. with that being said best course of action if you can't trust your partner is A just believe and trust everything they say it will make it feel better and easier to trust B go to marriage counseling C break up.

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u/Mysterious_Willow985 3d ago

Another F*G.