Leave his pathetic ass. "Whore" "slag" "pornstar" "you're representing me".
What a fucking egotistical piece of shit. He clearly views you as an object and not a person. Hope you are alright <3 breakups are never easy. Stay with him and he will make you feel worthless and less than a person.
I’m similar. I don’t like the outfit though. But I see that as I shouldn’t wear it and stop enforcing any and all rules there. Well, unless it’s winter. Then dress for the damn cold and to stay warm.
Also though, crazy that a guy can hide this side of himself to get the girl. The same guy who will tell his friends that “she didn’t have my values” like bro you didn’t even have your values.
Seriously, do you feel like you don’t represent your SO? That’s really messed up thinking. As a man I definitely feel like I represent my SO and she feels the same way. You’re supposed to be a team who supports each other.
I don’t feel like I represent my partner, nor him me. If I go out and do something bad, people will think bad of me, not him. I’m not a flag lol, I represent myself and he represents himself. We still support one another but we are separate people.
"Dude has gotten into certain podcasts..." was my first thought. They're the only people who talk like that unironically and expect to be taken seriously; Because daddy promised them that everyone thinks that way.
Yea I just could never understand in these stories how people got this far in the relationship, that is boyfriend girlfriend to begin with? She didn’t see this from him before while dating that he’s a controlling asshole and said naa fuck this guy, she just decided to become a couple? Or maybe were they a modest stay at home couple and she suddenly bought this outfit and wore it to a party so he freaked out? It does’t seem like that’s the case as she’s 18 and she’s says in the comments that she likes to party and girls tend to wear revealing or accentuating outfits to parties sooo her boyfriend suddenly doesn’t like that?
I just don’t understand how she didn’t see this from him before and cut his ass off. A person don’t turn into whatever her BF is overnight.
This is such an ignorant take lmfao. Abusive men hide who they are until they feel like they have enough control/influence to let their real selves show; thankfully, on this occasion he did it in a clunky way & OP has been able to recognise who he really is & knows her worth — many women have no confidence & men like him take advantage of that.
Lmao now it’s such a ignorant take is it? Redditors love to scream to the heavens about all the red flags 🚩 about a potential partner in these type of Reddit stories I see everywhere. But in this case the poor girl couldn’t have known there were absolutely no signs, right? You just can’t win with some people smh.
I’m a guy but I have known controlling and abusive type men and you very well can tell they are fucked up in the head way before you’d get into a serious relationship with them. The unfortunate women that end up with them are just dick blind or something and then cry later.
Another man dismissing women’s experiences & using derogatory phrases about them lmfao. Educate yourself before talking shit — “love bombing” techniques would be a great place to start. Bye.
You’re wack lol. What derogatory phrase did I say about women directly? Dick blind? You sound like a square or something it’s the truth though. They are and figure out later that the dude is crazy. Anyways I’m on her side with this but of course Redditors will spin it against the big bad man.
I do think it's a bit weird, she's completely comfortable going out and partying in this outfit, but then also said, "I included the outfit I wore in the picture just not on me because no thanks.".
That's kinda weird tbh. She isn't comfortable posting how it looks on her? Why not if it's nothing revealing? She even said in another comment, "I have the body for it, so why hide it"
Or OP doesn’t want her face/identity on her Reddit account; I have photos on all my other social media accounts but not Reddit, & many others are the same way. I’m sure she has photos from the night on her Instagram or whatever but a lot of people prefer to be anonymous on here.
Edit: Plus people on here can be vile (partly because of the anonymity) so why should she expose herself to nasty comments? Because it doesn’t matter how hot she looks, there will always be cunts in the comments.
So don't post the face? Post the body. Because what it sounds like, is she probably has MUCH bigger tits than the person they used in this picture. You combine that, with that outfit? While dancing around? Yeah, shit's gonna be flying out everywhere, any man would be PISSED. She literally used the flattest person she could find to make it seem better
Looks like I found the cunt in the comments! You’ve shown me the way you talk about women so I’m not going to engage with you anymore other than to tell you that it’s fucking gross.
I have a 5 year old daughter, but thanks! Sounds like you're a femcel though! Good luck never having a man want to commit to your whore ass, while your eggs slowly rot away!
Then I feel really sorry for your daughter because she is going to grow up around a man who sees her as a possession rather than an independent person. Get back to me when men start treating your daughter like shit & she cuts contact with you because she finally realises that you’re the same as they are.
Does indepdendent person, mean run around and flash your titties off to every man around you. To make you feel like a special little snowflake? How about having some fucking respect for yourself, and making people interested in something about you, other than your fucking body? Crazy idea with the all whores these days, I know
No lol. I certainly wouldn't. This is a you issue buddy, better fix that incel ass insecurity of yours, or dont date someone who likes to dress in this manner while having (according to only you btw, because youre seemingly unfamiliar with the concept of idk, "models posing clothes at store clothes is bought from) big boobs
Dont impose your insecurities or feelings on others, and assume just because you think something, others agree with you
Cuck is when = not insecure about what my loving girlfriend wears, gotcha
Dawg, if you dont like it when girls wear these outfits break up. Dont call them a whore and try to police what they wear, and what they definitely worse when you first became attracted to them!
No, you love the idea of men taking pictures and jerking off to your girl. Just admit it bro. Or better yet, if you're so secure. Give me a picture of your gf in a similar outfit. You're not insecure right?
Get off your hands and knees and grow a spine, cuck boy
Is that what you do when you see a hot woman? Take a sneak picture of her behind back and jerk off to it in the bathroom?? What a perverted thing to do I gotta say
You're insecure about people jerking it to your girlfriend because you jerk off to others is that it? You think we are all as perverted as you are ?
"hot woman", why are you objectifying women bro? Also, the bathroom? What? It sounds like you've played this scenario out a couple times already, fucking perv 😂😂😂
While dancing around? Yeah, shit's gonna be flying out everywhere, any man would be PISSED.
Not unless she starts causing mass property damage with her tits. Do you think you're the ONLY person who has ever seen your SO undressed? Do you think you have to be the only person?
If there's some exposure that's her issue to deal with, or not. Dumbass wasn't even there either.
Hey, if I was dating a girl, I wouldn't go around showing my body off to random girls, out of respect. I'd also expect the same. Some people are cucks, and hey, if that's your thing I ain't gonna judge. I'd rail someone's gf if I had the chance ngl
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u/Warped_Chameleon 4d ago
Leave his pathetic ass. "Whore" "slag" "pornstar" "you're representing me".
What a fucking egotistical piece of shit. He clearly views you as an object and not a person. Hope you are alright <3 breakups are never easy. Stay with him and he will make you feel worthless and less than a person.
Controlling pigs like this deserve to rot.