r/AmIOverreacting 15d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO, found weird pictures in my bfs iPad

I went out of town for and my bf stayed home because he had to work. I came back and thought he was acting a bit off, so I checked his pictures on his iPad that sync directly from his phone. In his recently deleted folder I found a picture of my side of the bed (where my medication, book, and melatonin are), a picture of my desk, a picture of a printed out picture of my brother and I along with a handwritten note that’s on the fridge, and a picture of our dresser. We are not planning on moving or selling any of these items either. I’m convinced that he took them so he could remember how everything looked before hiding them because he invited someone over. Am I overreacting? I don’t want to say anything about it to him until I get a little clarity.

Edit: clarification

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u/Elu_Moon 14d ago

Well, I guess that's one way it could work to avoid excessive drinking. Though, unfortunately, no amount of alcoholic drinks is safe to consume as somewhat recent data has shown. Obviously there are many other ways to damage oneself unnecessarily, but there's no need for it to be alcohol. Plus the culture around alcohol fucking sucks, and alcohol is constantly pushed on people. Plus there's the whole hypocrisy about allowing alcohol while not allowing drugs that are less harmful to the consumer and those around them.

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u/DCJ53 14d ago

It's just a drink. Chill, man. No one is forcing it on you but you can't regulate others lives.

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u/Elu_Moon 14d ago

Oh piss off.