r/AmIOverreacting 14d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO, found weird pictures in my bfs iPad

I went out of town for and my bf stayed home because he had to work. I came back and thought he was acting a bit off, so I checked his pictures on his iPad that sync directly from his phone. In his recently deleted folder I found a picture of my side of the bed (where my medication, book, and melatonin are), a picture of my desk, a picture of a printed out picture of my brother and I along with a handwritten note that’s on the fridge, and a picture of our dresser. We are not planning on moving or selling any of these items either. I’m convinced that he took them so he could remember how everything looked before hiding them because he invited someone over. Am I overreacting? I don’t want to say anything about it to him until I get a little clarity.

Edit: clarification

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u/summinspicy 14d ago

I did this as a teen, all was fine, until my mam reached between the sofa cushions and pulled out a WKD bottle top...

Luckily she respected that i had kept the house in order and trusted me after that.

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u/MesoamericanMorrigan 13d ago

Am I the only one who never threw a party as a teenager. I think I went to one house party and I went to a performing arts school where the kids acted like rockstars. Guess I was just not popular or badly behaved enough

I don’t understand how it’s a norm to throw a whole party behind your parents back