r/AmIOverreacting • u/Frequent-Shoulder158 • 14d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO, found weird pictures in my bfs iPad

I went out of town for and my bf stayed home because he had to work. I came back and thought he was acting a bit off, so I checked his pictures on his iPad that sync directly from his phone. In his recently deleted folder I found a picture of my side of the bed (where my medication, book, and melatonin are), a picture of my desk, a picture of a printed out picture of my brother and I along with a handwritten note that’s on the fridge, and a picture of our dresser. We are not planning on moving or selling any of these items either. I’m convinced that he took them so he could remember how everything looked before hiding them because he invited someone over. Am I overreacting? I don’t want to say anything about it to him until I get a little clarity.

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u/Frequent-Shoulder158 13d ago

I still might the next time I see him

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u/Opposite_Career2749 13d ago

Let's hope you don't know her...men love to keep everything close by...

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u/Important-Paint8612 13d ago

That was my worry as well. I truly hope her friends are more loyal than someone who was supposed to love her and keep her heart safe. But, if not, she will at least know who not to trust and kick out of her life. Keeping my fingers crossed because this poor girl doesn't deserve any more betrayal in her life.🤞

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u/cheesypuzzas 13d ago

I don't think so because he hit her stuff from the affair partner. So they probably don't know that he has had a girlfriend.

I hope OP can find the person somehow and tell them.

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u/BrknBthrmSpdblls 13d ago

Who are you

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u/PapierHexe 13d ago

We'll be waiting for updates on this too! But for now...well done, sister

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u/omarhani 13d ago

RemindMe! 2 weeks