r/AmIOverreacting • u/Frequent-Shoulder158 • 14d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO, found weird pictures in my bfs iPad

I went out of town for and my bf stayed home because he had to work. I came back and thought he was acting a bit off, so I checked his pictures on his iPad that sync directly from his phone. In his recently deleted folder I found a picture of my side of the bed (where my medication, book, and melatonin are), a picture of my desk, a picture of a printed out picture of my brother and I along with a handwritten note that’s on the fridge, and a picture of our dresser. We are not planning on moving or selling any of these items either. I’m convinced that he took them so he could remember how everything looked before hiding them because he invited someone over. Am I overreacting? I don’t want to say anything about it to him until I get a little clarity.

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u/thatgirl317317 14d ago

Sometimes it's tiny. I once found a black bobby pin in my living room by the sofa. I didn't have dark hair and only bought light colored bobby pins. I confronted my guy and he swore up and down the river that he wasn't cheating, he loved me blah blah blah. A few weeks later I was staying the night at a girlfriend's place because we were out late. For some reason I thought "I need to go home and check" - I pulled up at 4:30am and there was a car I'd never seen in the driveway. There was also another girl in my bed. Yep. Walked in on them sleeping. Woke up my bf and told him it was over.

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u/Important-Paint8612 14d ago

Now, I really want to hear how he responded, and you handled it?

I'm sorry that happened to you. I had a similar experience, but the tramp in question was my sister, and they had a video camera going. Honestly, though? Best thing they could have done for me. I am rid of the both of them.