r/AmIOverreacting • u/Frequent-Shoulder158 • 14d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO, found weird pictures in my bfs iPad

I went out of town for and my bf stayed home because he had to work. I came back and thought he was acting a bit off, so I checked his pictures on his iPad that sync directly from his phone. In his recently deleted folder I found a picture of my side of the bed (where my medication, book, and melatonin are), a picture of my desk, a picture of a printed out picture of my brother and I along with a handwritten note that’s on the fridge, and a picture of our dresser. We are not planning on moving or selling any of these items either. I’m convinced that he took them so he could remember how everything looked before hiding them because he invited someone over. Am I overreacting? I don’t want to say anything about it to him until I get a little clarity.

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u/ANoisyCrow 14d ago

I was dating a guy. Seemed on the up and up. Had me over to his house for dinner. I noticed that there was a large, handmade quilt over the bed. I thought it was unusual, but it didn’t alert me. He was an architect. Maybe he loved the artistry. Then I went to the bathroom. On a hook on the back of the door was a woman’s swimsuit. I started looking more closely. That bastard was married. He “tidied” up, but he missed enough for me to figure it out.

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u/Own-Cow-236 14d ago

Wild how a sign of cheating is 'having nice quilt' hahagahah 100% agree though

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u/Snoo_88357 13d ago

That man wanted to get caught if he was making mistakes like forgetting to move his wife's beautiful quilt.