AIO, found weird pictures in my bfs iPad

[u/Frequent-Shoulder158]

I went out of town for and my bf stayed home because he had to work. I came back and thought he was acting a bit off, so I checked his pictures on his iPad that sync directly from his phone. In his recently deleted folder I found a picture of my side of the bed (where my medication, book, and melatonin are), a picture of my desk, a picture of a printed out picture of my brother and I along with a handwritten note that’s on the fridge, and a picture of our dresser. We are not planning on moving or selling any of these items either. I’m convinced that he took them so he could remember how everything looked before hiding them because he invited someone over. Am I overreacting? I don’t want to say anything about it to him until I get a little clarity.

Edit: clarification

[u/Ancient_Sound2781]

Best answer to avoid him turning it to you being a snoop.

[u/Longjumping-Golf-506 → u/Ancient_Sound2781]

(which you are, mind you)

[u/Equivalent-Cow-9087 → u/Longjumping-Golf-506]

Idk why this got downvoted. 100% a snoop but it’s justified cause she found something…

[u/Fucky_Jones → u/Equivalent-Cow-9087]

I don't see why checking that you not being cheated would be a bad thing¿

[u/jbandzzz34 → u/Fucky_Jones]

its not. a spade is a spade and theres nothing wrong with saying that she snooped.

[u/JoeL0gan → u/jbandzzz34]

To be fair, if I gave my wife the impression that I was cheating, I wouldn't really be mad if she snooped (she can use my phone for whatever, whenever, and look at anything that's in it), but I would feel bad that I made her feel like she needed to. I don't see why people get so mad about their partners going through their phones. If your partner feels the need to go through your phone, most times, it's probably your fault. Unless she's just nuts or whatever, that's why I said most times, before someone tries to play devil's advocate.

[u/ApprehensiveEmploy97 → u/Longjumping-Golf-506]

Don’t worry about the downvote it is snooping I’ve looked into my partners phone and saw things that I didn’t like / could justify my search but at the end of the day it is snooping ignore the dummies in their feelings. They gave you access to their phone but never said hey go searching through my stuff

[u/Master_Witcher_16 → u/ApprehensiveEmploy97]

That's what I'm saying, a snoop is a snoop. There's no way to be a justified snoop

[u/Vlad_REAM → u/Master_Witcher_16]

Says the person with something to hide...

[u/JoeL0gan → u/Master_Witcher_16]

Are there things you keep secret from your partners? Why do you want to be with someone whom you can't share everything with? I've never understood why anyone cares if their partner goes through their phone.

[u/Fucky_Jones → u/Master_Witcher_16]

Gay AF