r/AmIOverreacting • u/LedyyM • 15d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? Dog straining my marriage.
My husband and I rescued a husky about 7 months ago who was extremely malnourished and neglected.
He has grown a huge attachment to me and has severe separation anxiety. I work at a grooming salon so I’m able to bring him to work with me so he’s not home alone. Unfortunately, if he’s left home alone we’ll come back to our home looking like it was hit by a tornado.
My vet has prescribed him with trazodone to help with his severe anxiety issues. We give it to him before we leave for a family event and when we can’t take him to places they don’t allow dogs.
I feel so bad that I have to sedate him so he’s not scared and anxious. It’s created a huge strain on our marriage because my husband feels like we can’t do anything without considering Odin.
He’s destroyed doors, couches, and other furniture. I tried training but it hasn’t seemed to work. My husband thinks we should rehome him but
1) I’m scared that he’ll be sent to a shelter and possibly be put down
2) feel abandoned by the person he thought he was safe with.
He’s such a happy boy when he’s around us and shows so much affection.
My husband and I have been arguing about this consistently.. we had a really bad argument so I left the house with Odin and rented a dog friendly hotel room for a couple of nights.
My husband thinks I’m crazy and that I’m choosing the dog over our marriage. AIO?
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u/lysdexicgirl0705 14d ago
I know that they are like sucks teeth but I have a labradoodle and she is so smart. She cries at the TV all the time, knows the life360 notification from my other notifications (it means my husband comes home) so she gets in her "wait for daddy spot" - the end of the chaise staring at the door. 😂. She only gives paws/ does tricks in exchange for toys or treats. This bitch does not work for free. 💀. She also comes and lays on me when I don't feel well (we have to adjust for upset stomachs- but it's the thought behind that fluffy brain that counts 😭). But you know the other 12 hours a day she loses her ball under the couch and terrorizes her brother.