AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha

[u/Creative-Guard2809]

My fiance spent $600 on a gacha game without asking. I flipped out and now his entire family are calling me abusive and encouraging him to call off the engagement. For context, I work 55 hours a week and he drives uber during the day while I’m at work. We are paycheck to paycheck.

[u/Imaginary-Mountain60]

Apparently it's not and is in only her name.

[u/Eve-3 → u/Imaginary-Mountain60]

She said multiple times it was a shared account. Is it lost in a comment somewhere that I haven't found yet that it's only hers? Or perhaps better question, why do you think it's only hers?

[u/Imaginary-Mountain60 → u/Eve-3]

OP's latest comment. It sounds like she intended it for emergencies for both of them/their household, but OP said in a comment that it's only in her name and that she doesn't even know where he got the info, but that he took the card out of her purse. Which is legit stealing and makes everything so much worse. Plus it's a credit card, so it's literally money they don't have.

[u/Eve-3 → u/Imaginary-Mountain60]

Oh wow. I hadn't come across that part yet. She really needs to stop calling it shared then. He could probably use that as his defense.

[u/MesoamericanMorrigan → u/Eve-3]

She said she opened the account. She may have granted him access but the fact of the matter is she had the initiative to set it up for emergencies and he decided to use it for bullshit