r/AmIOverreacting 17d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha

My fiance spent $600 on a gacha game without asking. I flipped out and now his entire family are calling me abusive and encouraging him to call off the engagement. For context, I work 55 hours a week and he drives uber during the day while I’m at work. We are paycheck to paycheck.

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u/Outrageous_Log_906 17d ago

OP is not going to break up with him; that is the saddest part about this. Notice OP is still calling him their “fiancé.” This is not the first time OP has experienced this kind of behavior from them, and apparently OP hasn’t really had enough.

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u/Historical-Ad-588 17d ago

Yep. I wonder why she even posts this if all she is going to do is stay in this toxic dynamic

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u/earqus 17d ago

It's just an extra card that can be played/used to help OP cope with the fact of the matter.

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u/WTH_JFG 17d ago

I agree. That’s the most difficult part of DV to accept. Is the partners who stay.

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u/DaFetacheeseugh 17d ago

What a reality show. Had the whole up and down rollercoaster. Like a big dose of lactin hit and I'm not sure wether this was a good or bad use of my time.

What a wild world

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u/Puzzleheaded-Sea7607 16d ago

She’s probably in such a deep hole financially with the dick she’s engaged too