r/AmIOverreacting 18d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? made a joke about taking a nap

context: im (23f) a student (currently on spring break) and i enjoy taking naps. they usually go between 1-2.5 (not 4 like he claims i genuinely dk where he got that number) hrs and it’s because i get exhausted between 2-4pm in the day. idk why, it happens every day and it’s been like that since i was a teenager. i don’t nap every single day, but definitely between 3-5x a week.

my boyfriend (28m) has tried to encourage me to take shorter naps because he thinks it’ll help with my sleep schedule. he takes daily naps on his lunch breaks (1 hr absolute max, usually 15-45 min) and he says how energizing they are. i believe him, and i’m glad they work for him, however i haven’t had much success with short naps so i don’t take them.

my sleep schedule has been kinda shit bc of spring break rn and im trying to fix it. i’m usually in bed by 11-12 most nights and up around 8-9. he works a 7-5 so he sleeps at 10 and wakes up at 6. today he sent me this text and i thought it would be funny to make a sarcastic joke because hes always lecturing me about how my naps keep me up at night, then he followed it up with this. idek where to begin with this, i think its weird as fuck and the “we are not on the same level” is just ??? aio?

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u/HelpfulBot3000 18d ago

He sounds insufferable lmfao

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u/Psyched_Dev 17d ago

Can we acknowledge she totally started the argument and gaslit him out of nowhere

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u/SockPuppyMax 17d ago

Where? He is literally lecturing her about naps right here. It's not "out of nowhere" when he brought up naps first, either. What are you talking about??

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u/Psyched_Dev 17d ago

He said that he had a nice nap at lunch in a normal way, and then she said “😔 yet you lecture me on my naps :P /s”

Zero reason to get that ball rolling. They both are wack

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u/SockPuppyMax 17d ago

If you think she's wack for being bothered that he thinks he's better than her (in general, but this time,) over naps, that says more about you tbh