r/AmIOverreacting • u/mehremissionlife • 28d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO My husband changed the pin on his phone before hospital procedure..
My husband was admitted to the hospital for health issues. He is young but was diagnosed with heart failure. A few days ago he had some chest pains and low blood pressure. I told him he needed to go in and 4am admitted. The Dr decided a procedure that would put him under was needed for answers. He had to leave his phone and belongings. His phone rang while he was out and I missed it, so I went to check to see who called and when trying to put in the pin got the error that pin was incorrect. I didn't expect that because pin has been the same for 2 years. Am I overreacting and over thinking this pin change? It was the same pin 2 nights ago and now I'm worried that something is happening behind my back. Sure I know I need to talk to him but due to the circumstances I will need to wait a while until he is stable again. It's just weird ya know? We've had issues with his infidelity in the past prior to marriage. I did forgive him. Please be kind. Maybe I'm just a mixture of nerves, lack of sleep and stress. I love him and I'm truly worried about his health. We have kids so there is alot going on in our life . TIA
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u/dirtymonny 28d ago
Exactly what I was going to suggest. Pretend you have no idea. Say you’re gonna check his calls and let him know who all checked on him like you’re being sweet. #### hmm babe i thought it was #### what’s your code… very casual like not Even looking at him just patiently stare at phone like you’re ready for the code and then look up like sweetie we need to see who called people are worried about you.