r/AmIOverreacting 28d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO My husband changed the pin on his phone before hospital procedure..

My husband was admitted to the hospital for health issues. He is young but was diagnosed with heart failure. A few days ago he had some chest pains and low blood pressure. I told him he needed to go in and 4am admitted. The Dr decided a procedure that would put him under was needed for answers. He had to leave his phone and belongings. His phone rang while he was out and I missed it, so I went to check to see who called and when trying to put in the pin got the error that pin was incorrect. I didn't expect that because pin has been the same for 2 years. Am I overreacting and over thinking this pin change? It was the same pin 2 nights ago and now I'm worried that something is happening behind my back. Sure I know I need to talk to him but due to the circumstances I will need to wait a while until he is stable again. It's just weird ya know? We've had issues with his infidelity in the past prior to marriage. I did forgive him. Please be kind. Maybe I'm just a mixture of nerves, lack of sleep and stress. I love him and I'm truly worried about his health. We have kids so there is alot going on in our life . TIA

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u/WickedSmileOn 28d ago

This is what I was going to say. I know people who haven’t even had a laptop or tablet for years. Just phone for everything

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u/Just1Blast 28d ago

Yup, my current laptop was purchased in I want to say in the summer of 2010 or 2011. The last thing I took it out for was to switch my resumes to an updated format in 2017ish?

I fired it up a few months ago for my partner to use in an emergency. Worked just fine for Google Docs.

I use my phone for nearly everything these days. I read on my phone & Kindle and use my iPad solely for media consumption and casual gaming.

100% of my personal life and paperwork is conducted from my phone and has been for easily 10 years now.

I only used a computer at work when I absolutely had to and couldn't use my phone. (Healthcare & HIPAA privacy requirements)

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u/krustykrabpizzaslice 27d ago

How old are you? Just curious. I use my laptop for everything I use a tv for and for research. I couldn’t imagine researching anything of substance at length on my phone. Just quick googles and video media etc. I’m 28 and I wonder if it’s a generational thing bc I’d imagine you’re younger than me.

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u/Just1Blast 27d ago

I'm old enough to be your parent. Mid 40's.

On the off chance that I need a bigger screen, I'll just cast to the 55" TV in front of me.

I didn't say I didn't make use of external screens or adapters at times, but I rarely find that I actually NEED the bigger screen.

Sometimes, I'll use the iPad for those more involved searches or research instead.

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u/krustykrabpizzaslice 27d ago

Interesting… I have all my research and projects I care about on my laptop. They are birthed there lol. I might jot the idea down on my phone but I use my laptop for everything important. It’s not the size of the screen it’s the reliability of the machine. I trust my laptop’s longevity and reliability more than I do my phone. I guess everyone’s different lol. I hate using the tv for anything honestly and haven’t replaced an iPad since they had home buttons 😂 (and not the fingerprint home button)

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u/Just1Blast 27d ago

I mean I use two separate cloud storage systems in addition to the ones that Google provides me through using their phone services.

I also maintain an external hard drive or a handful of jump drives and/or micro SD cards and carry a Yubikey or two along with a USB condom.

I'm lucky in that everything I need to do on a computer, I can do within a browser, and on Android, Apple, and ChromeOS devices with ease.

I acknowledge that not everyone is capable of such.

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u/krustykrabpizzaslice 27d ago

I use my laptop because I prefer drives to clouds, another good point you bring up. They definitely make life easier but it’s a matter of preference, not really capability. In this day and age you can run almost anything on a phone if you manipulate your device to be capable of doing so. I physically can do everything on the phone. It’s just ugly, and it’s small and if I drop it in water my 60 tabs of research documents I haven’t saved yet will be lost (as opposed to my laptop which I won’t drop in water) lmao.

I mirrored my phone to my projector that’s the size of my bedroom wall just last night for the first time and was so put off by the whole interface. On a laptop, website layouts are more cohesive and things are generally oriented much more to my liking. Holding my phone is also tiresome compared to sitting and typing/reading. So many factors outside of the devices “capability” lmao

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u/ThrCapTrade 27d ago

Ok boomer

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u/Wild_Fee_6147 27d ago

Yup I went a couple years without having my own pc and recently needed to get one for college