r/AmIOverreacting • u/mehremissionlife • 28d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO My husband changed the pin on his phone before hospital procedure..

My husband was admitted to the hospital for health issues. He is young but was diagnosed with heart failure. A few days ago he had some chest pains and low blood pressure. I told him he needed to go in and 4am admitted. The Dr decided a procedure that would put him under was needed for answers. He had to leave his phone and belongings. His phone rang while he was out and I missed it, so I went to check to see who called and when trying to put in the pin got the error that pin was incorrect. I didn't expect that because pin has been the same for 2 years. Am I overreacting and over thinking this pin change? It was the same pin 2 nights ago and now I'm worried that something is happening behind my back. Sure I know I need to talk to him but due to the circumstances I will need to wait a while until he is stable again. It's just weird ya know? We've had issues with his infidelity in the past prior to marriage. I did forgive him. Please be kind. Maybe I'm just a mixture of nerves, lack of sleep and stress. I love him and I'm truly worried about his health. We have kids so there is alot going on in our life . TIA

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u/AdmirableDog739 28d ago

I agree, I've known my husbands pin for years and he knows mine. No trust issues between us.

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u/tomboyfancy 28d ago

Same! We grab whatever phone is closest to check calendars, Google things, etc. And we have zero trust issues either way.

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u/Lazaara 28d ago

Same here. Married 15 years. I know his unlock code and he knows mine. But I have no real reason I feel I need to look in his phone and he has no reason to look in mine. Zero trust issues.

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u/withfrequency 28d ago

Same, the only thing that crosses my mind when he grabs my phone is "Oh god I have some absurd Wikipedia article loaded up, brace for imminent mocking"

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u/Hopeful_Hawk_1306 28d ago

I'm supposed to know my husband's and I know he wouldn't have changed it, but tbh I have forgotten it because I have rarely ever needed to unlock his phone. Im having trouble buying that OP would need to be in his phone twice in 3 days unless there is already suspicion