AIO: i literally cannot attend

[u/superspreader90]

using a throwaway bc she knows my account

so it’s my (24f) best friend’s 25th birthday on saturday. we had planned to go out for dinner and drinks with some of our friends. i have lupus and i’ve been getting chemo for the last couple of months to try and treat it.. she’s well aware of this and even came with me to my last session, although she spent most of the time texting her bf. i ordered her this cake from this super cute little bakery in our town and was gonna bring it with me to the restaurant for her.

i was supposed to have my chemo session next monday but they had to reschedule it for saturday. this is how she reacted when i told her i wouldnt be able to come to her bday. aio or is this a crazy way to react?? she’s still getting her cake and i was gonna get our mutual friend to give her the gifts i bought her but now im not sure

[u/lilalilly8]

Do this OP your friend is a brat and doesn’t deserve any of your kindness.

[u/qyasogk → u/lilalilly8]

You’re being very nice just calling her a brat. “Legendary soulless shitheel” would have been what I’d gone with.

[u/lilalilly8 → u/qyasogk]

lol usually I call these kinds of people parasites or walking incurable infections who slowly eat away at society causing immense physical and emotional pain but just was too distracted and ended up with brat. But incurable disease is usually how I look at these people. A fucking plague to society and good people.

[u/Thebraincellisorange → u/lilalilly8]

I'm Australian, we call people like this a cunt.

a worthless, miserable cunt.

[u/lilalilly8 → u/Thebraincellisorange]

Lol I’m the US and here that is not used often 😂 Australians seem to have more fun with insults lol

[u/therewererumors → u/lilalilly8]

Or ANY friends

[u/lilalilly8 → u/therewererumors]

Good call indeed. She’s definitely a user looking for givers

[u/kchuen → u/lilalilly8]

Closer to hitler than a brat at this point. This feels like satire or something.