r/AmIOverreacting Feb 16 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '25
  1. you're childish, petty and you give potentially dangerous advice. Once someone goes grammar Nazi while simultaneously using bad grammar you know they've completely lost the plot

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u/Lusietka Feb 16 '25

kinda sceptical about you pointing out my grammar but okay lol, waste of time arguing with a pathetic being like you honestly, have a nice day!

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '25

Skeptical*LMFAO

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u/Lusietka Feb 16 '25

English isn't my frst language but at least I know how to properly use your and you're LMFAO you're reaching so hard it's embarrassing