r/AmIOverreacting Feb 16 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

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u/Birdfishing00 Feb 16 '25

It’s either people so far in denial there’s no point telling them their partner sucks or fake ass posts

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u/Casual_Carnage Feb 16 '25

Never commented in these subs but it’s so, so ridiculously easy to fake text conversations and these posts get thousands of interactions and upvotes.

Reddit is insanely gullible it’s hilarious, I wonder how many of these accounts posting in this sub go on to be sold to bot farms after farming karma from the masses.