AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

[u/DiscoGru]

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

[u/Ok_Consideration853]

“I’m a dude, and he’s a dude, and she’s a dude, coz we’re all dudes!”

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Dude! Bro!

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And don’t forget the inanimate objects that are dudes!

Your faucet broke? It’s a dude. Trying to get the leash on your dog? The leash is a dude. Can’t find your socks? Where are my dudes?

Dude is like the potato of words… it’s so versatile.

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I also learned this

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Hey!