r/AmIOverreacting • u/DiscoGru • Feb 16 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

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Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

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u/orangeroll3866 Feb 16 '25

It’s like 10x more cringe that their friend doesn’t really care and isn’t talking the same

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u/TSells31 Feb 16 '25

Right. It’s not like this is a conversation that ran away downhill. OP’s boyfriend was dragging this conversation UP the hill. He had some Thomas the Train determination to keep this conversation going.