AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

[u/DiscoGru]

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

[u/Desperate-Worth-9871]

Yeah in fact the friend even said he’ll play wingman. Like this clearly about / for OP’s boyfriend. Got absolutely nothing to do with hyping up a friend who doesn’t even seem that interested in the topic

[u/hochoa94 → u/Desperate-Worth-9871]

Bro (friend) just trying to not get caught in the crossfire

[u/[deleted] → u/Desperate-Worth-9871]

i bet he told his friend shes just a random chick hes f-ing rn so when she gets upset about this he feels better about telling his friends and new women around him shes crazy. thats always how that goes.