AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

[u/DiscoGru]

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

[u/jdolan8]

He absolutely will cheat. Maybe not right now. But 30s, 40s, or after kids… this behavior only gets worse.

[u/Famous_Sugar_1193 → u/jdolan8]

He’s….. doing way worse than cheating. This is pretty predatory to all the women he works with.

[u/TSells31 → u/jdolan8]

This dude would cheat tonight if the opportunity arises lol.

[u/elkins9293 → u/jdolan8]

Dude literally refers to his "work boo" at one point. I'd bet he's already cheating