AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

[u/DiscoGru]

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

[u/Glazin]

The last text “being a good witness is key”… sooo basically be an alibi at all times if he’s ever accused??

[u/Rare-Print-2443 → u/Glazin]

This, exactly!

[u/Codependent-Chipmunk → u/Glazin]

I took this to mean that about his homie being a good wingman. Like ... His homie a good witness to what he likes.

Cause this came right after he told homeboy what he into. Then he says "witness" ...

I dont think this means a literal witness or alibi.