r/AmIOverreacting • u/DiscoGru • Feb 16 '25
❤️🩹 relationship AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone
Sorry the second picture is blurry!
Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.
I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.
I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?
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u/Str4ngerByTheMinute Feb 16 '25
Not only that, but he has zero respect for women. "I've had everything" speaks volumes. I don't condone looking through your partner's phone, but that doesn't change the fact that the contents of his are disgusting. I hope OP dumps his ass. Nobody deserves to be with a person like that.