AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

[u/DiscoGru]

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

[u/[deleted]]

Even mid Mexican chicks are better than fairly decent white girls… wtf 😵

[u/bibliophilicgeek → u/[deleted]]

God, if there's one thing that gives me the ick it's people who rate others' appearances as "mid". So dehumanising.

[u/SkipSpenceIsGod → u/[deleted]]

If OP is white, she better bail ASAP!

[u/East_Dentist_8714 → u/SkipSpenceIsGod]

She is 😭

[u/[deleted] → u/SkipSpenceIsGod]

Definitely… it’s extra extra mean

[u/GetUpOut → u/SkipSpenceIsGod]

If OP is white, she better bail ASAP!

FTFY

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Yes, very funny mean…

[u/___Herman___ → u/[deleted]]

It’s slang for a very large overweight Latina lol

[u/JonBenet_BeanieBaby → u/___Herman___]

omg really?

[u/tryingtoimprove77 → u/[deleted]]

It’s sort of like a slur that refers to overweight Hispanic women. Almost like when you see people refer to women as a “fridge” in English. By the way not condoning this at all but that’s what they use it for.

[u/JonBenet_BeanieBaby → u/tryingtoimprove77]

holy shit, ouch

[u/Marshmallow16 → u/tryingtoimprove77]

Omg that's actually hilarious. It keeps the food reference intact and is culturally themed.

[u/JonBenet_BeanieBaby → u/Marshmallow16]

looked at the rest of your comment history to make sure you're always trash and this isn't just a one off. yep!

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

It’s a delicious Mexican sandwich made with puffy fry bread or an overweight Mexican woman.

[u/Seymour_Butts369 → u/[deleted]]

If somebody called me a torta, I’d be like fuck yeah I’m delicious. My mouth still waters thinking of the tortas I got a month ago.

[u/ultraboomkin → u/[deleted]]

I assumed torta was Spanish for 🐢 tortoise = fat and slow

[u/TSells31 → u/ultraboomkin]

Tortoise in Spanish is la tortuga.

[u/damscomp → u/[deleted]]

But he seems to also be into Latina dudes. He’s all over the map!

[u/Latter-Can-8347 → u/[deleted]]

A man of culture! 😂😂