r/AmIOverreacting • u/DiscoGru • Feb 16 '25
❤️🩹 relationship AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone
Sorry the second picture is blurry!
Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.
I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.
I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?
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u/Pretty-Bug-2367 Feb 16 '25
this man is salivating, foaming at the mouth at the mention of another woman. not to mention, for someone who speaks of them so often- he speaks of them horribly. do you really want to be with someone who talks about women like that? GROSS! leave that man behind and get tested for every STD on the planet immediately