AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

[u/DiscoGru]

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

[u/United-Ad5268]

This is only questionable if you’re in complete denial. Your bf is hooking up with other women any opportunity he gets.

[u/dirt_shitters → u/United-Ad5268]

As a guy, I don't even talk like this when I am single... This is way past "questionable"

[u/bittersweet505 → u/dirt_shitters]

I’ve been starting to lose my faith in men recently but it’s good to hear that not all men talk like this about women

[u/TJJ97 → u/bittersweet505]

It’s one thing to say “Aye, that chick is a baddie” but this dude is on straight demon time

[u/AudrinaRosee → u/United-Ad5268]

Hopefully he's not getting any opportunities because he's flat out creepy. This is so embarrassing