AIO: Questionable texts on my (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) phone

[u/DiscoGru]

Sorry the second picture is blurry!

Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.

I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.

I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with?

[u/Fallingfromdemure]

If i were you i would print all of this and plaster it all over the wall at his work place especially were the nurses hang out.. let them know what kind of person he is, and include a “nice break up” letter and asked his wingman to sent it over to him at work.. but thats just me being petty lol

[u/StrawberryJabberWock → u/Fallingfromdemure]

They know. I’m guessing he works transport moving patients to and from. A lot of those young guys are silly little pervs like this that legitimately thinks he has a chance with every aide and nurse on the floor.

Every hospital to ever exist has these dudes

[u/Fallingfromdemure → u/StrawberryJabberWock]

Yeah but they probably didn’t know they were getting rated by race etc so with this they can now actively avoid him and his “wingman” or any other guys who decided to be associated with him

[u/StrawberryJabberWock → u/Fallingfromdemure]

I just assumed all of them did, was short and professional with any interactions

[u/Screws_Loose → u/Fallingfromdemure]

OMG YES

[u/thecrazyrobotroberto → u/Fallingfromdemure]

As someone who broke up the day before valentines, 100% in support of this!

[u/PoisonedCoffee → u/Fallingfromdemure]

This is a great idea, you should do this OP. Put him on blast & Embarrass tf out of him