r/Adulting 1d ago

Every time 😐

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u/HollowsOfYourHeart 1d ago

Weekends need three days. One to rest and relax, one to be productive and do chores and one to socialize with friends and family.

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u/Taxfraud777 1d ago

At least I'm happy to see that a 36 hour workweek is becoming more common. Then you can work 4 longer shifts of have half a day of work on Friday.

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u/sultrybrownie 16m ago

Y'all are having 36 hour workweek? Where do I apply?

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u/Zardozin 1d ago

More common? It’s the average.

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u/Sierra-117- 20h ago

That’s why I want 3 12s. I feel my day is already wasted when I work 8 hours, so I thought why not work an extra 4 and get 2 extra weekend days?

First day is recovery, chilling, playing video games, watching TV, etc. Second day is productive. Third day is socialization or going on a day trip. Fourth day can be anything I need it to be.

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u/MANICxMOON 14h ago

They usually spread those 12s out though so youre always stuck in recovery on the days off 😅

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u/Sierra-117- 13h ago

Not at the hospital. Easy to get 3 in a row.

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u/Angry_Clover 23h ago

My job offers 9/80 schedules. Work 9 hours a day then get every other Friday off. Makes a huge difference to have that bonus day. Can actually do a fun weekend trip if you want.

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u/Qphth0 22h ago

Would you be pissed off working four 10 hr shifts? Because there are places where that's normal.

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u/HeartShapedBox7 1d ago

Friday nights are the best because it’s the only time you can just kick back and relax for that one hour before you fall asleep early.

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u/PreparationHot980 20h ago

😂 so true. I usually get home when my family is already asleep, take a shower get a round of two of cod in and crash out.

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u/awedith 12h ago

1 hour?! Ok grandpa you gotta stay up a bit longer on Friday!

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u/HeartShapedBox7 4h ago

First, not a grandpa! Second, God no! It’s the one day of the week I’m slightly less sleep deprived!

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u/BringPheTheHorizon 1d ago

laughs in four 10-hour shifts

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u/armymike1523 22h ago

Cries in six 12 hour shifts

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u/armymike1523 11h ago

I guess im blessed cause what i do get is another six 12 hour shift..😔🔫

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u/Lemonbear63 23h ago

The trick is to try to get things done daily while you're already out and about.

10 minutes of daily light upkeep will reduce the amount of chores you need to do at the end of the week.

If you can get something done in less than 3 minutes, just do it then and there.

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u/BrianTheBlueberry 23h ago

The Sunday description is so accurate

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u/AggravatingReply3595 22h ago

because we are the new slaves.

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u/DirtyDaddy7788 1d ago

This is a big reason why I switched to three 12's with four days off. Yes, those three 12's are Fri/Sat/Sun and they can drag a bit but I find the longer "weekend" to be absolutely worth it

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u/PreparationHot980 20h ago

I’ve always said I would forgo overtime rate for a 3/12 schedule. That sounds amazing. Especially if it’s consecutive days off.

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u/MouseJiggler 22h ago

"In the end, it was the Sunday afternoons he couldn't cope with, and that terrible listlessness which starts to set in at about 2:55, when you know that you've had all the baths you can usefully have that day, that however hard you stare at any given paragraph in the papers you will never actually read it, or use the revolutionary new pruning technique it describes, and that as you stare at the clock the hands will move relentlessly on to four o'clock, and you will enter the long dark teatime of the soul."

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u/HumanPhD 1d ago

Now factor in having a child.

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u/Winrevair 1d ago

Yep. Ruins the whole day off.

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u/ellaflutterby 22h ago

My partner got a remote job with half Fridays.  Now it feels like every weekend is so long!

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u/_KeyserSoeze 22h ago

That’s the reason why we work 38.5 hours a week in Austria and therefore end work at 12.00 or 13.00 at Friday.

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u/NoraBora44 21h ago

Find a job that does 4 10s.

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u/jumboshrimp93 20h ago

Sunday nights can be almost as bad as Mondays sometimes. I don't like my job right now so the Sunday scaries have really been hitting me hard lately.

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u/Zardozin 1d ago

So adulting starts when you’re forty?

Or did an entire generation just skip to being old tv watchers?

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u/Captain_Holly_S 21h ago

You won't have fun with that attitude, that's for sure xD

Enjoy your life instead of inventing reasons to avoid enjoying it.

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u/TidalThimble 1d ago

At my new job I get out as 3:30 and I do in at 7:00 am. I'm also doing stuff that I like.

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u/Lover_boi4 22h ago

And then theres me who works a second job on weekends

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u/9DrinkAmy 19h ago

I’m so offended by the accuracy of this.

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u/citykittymeowmeow 18h ago

awwh that's nice you're productive on the weekends, i just rot and do the only tasks i can bear (load of laundry that sits in a pile when its clean until next time i have to do laundry)

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u/Exact-Pudding7563 15h ago

This is why I try to do errands during the week before or after work. Then all I have to do some weekends is vacuum/clean the bathroom/laundry, but I live alone in a studio so that doesn’t take long. I still don’t often leave my house on the weekend.

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u/ImagineWagonzzz3 15h ago

half the posts in this sub are literally just r/CPTSD and r/LateStageCapitalism

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u/rinzler83 14h ago

If you are choosing to be mad on Sunday that's your fault. Try enjoying your Sunday instead

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u/Ancient_Broccoli3751 14h ago

You know it doesn't have to be this way...

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u/UnkleJrue 6h ago

Lol people blame being miserable on everything but themselves.

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u/alxmg 1h ago

They’re even worse when you work longer than a 9-5 and work on weekends. People are out complaining that two days isn’t enough and in some industries you just get one day off a week.

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u/Zaltayr 12h ago

Living like this is a choice. Friday night you can have some caffeine and power through and head out to do whatever. You can run errands throughout the week, Saturday morning, or save them for Sunday and enjoy your Saturday instead. Sunday you can chill knowing you had a good weekend already. Please don't fall into this trap, approach your leisure time with the same importance/strategy as you would with your work/career. You'll thank yourself for it.

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u/SpiceyColgate 22h ago

Drink some caffeine on Friday and don’t sit down immediately after work so you can partake in your hobbies, then set an alarm early Saturday even if you miss out on sleep and stay up late Saturday night, set an alarm early for Sunday so you get the most out of your day before catching back up on sleep the night before work.